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How can you be confident about anything when you have nothing to be confident about? For example, how can you feel confident in your new job if you’ve never done anything like it before? Or how can you be confident in social circumstances when no one has ever liked you? Or how can you be confident in your relationship if you’ve never been in a successful one before? Read this blog to know how to be more confident in everything you do- be it giving interviews, speaking in public, or anything else.
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What is Confidence?
Confidence is the belief in one’s abilities, qualities, and judgment. It involves trusting yourself to handle various situations effectively and make decisions without undue hesitation. Confidence stems from self-awareness, competence, and positive past experiences. It enables individuals to face challenges, take risks, and pursue goals with a positive outlook. Importantly, confidence is not arrogance; it’s a balanced understanding of one’s strengths and limitations. It can be cultivated through self-improvement, learning from failures, and embracing new experiences. A confident person inspires trust and respect, both in themselves and in others. For example, studies have shown that more confident people perform better academically.
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What Can Cause a Lack of Confidence?
A lack of confidence can stem from various factors. Negative past experiences, such as failure or criticism, can erode self-belief. For example, repeatedly failing exams may lead to self-doubt. Comparisons with others, often amplified by social media, can create feelings of inadequacy. For instance, seeing peers’ success online can make one’s achievements seem lesser. Lack of skills or knowledge in a particular area, such as public speaking, can also cause insecurity. Additionally, negative self-talk, such as thinking “I’m not good enough,” can undermine confidence. Chronic stress or anxiety further exacerbates these feelings, making confidence difficult to build.
How to be More Confident: Tips and Tricks
Are you lacking confidence? Don’t fret! Fortunately, there are various techniques to boost your self-esteem aka confidence. Implement the ideas given below to be/look more confident (even when you aren’t) in different situations:
During Interviews
You’ve just received a golden ticket—an interview—after a long, hard journey of seeking and applying for new employment.
However, after a brief period of joy, panic creeps in: Your heart is already racing, your palms are sweating, and you’re thinking if hiring supervisors, like sharks, can detect fear.
You’re not alone if the notion of sitting across from a recruiting manager makes your stomach flip. However, don’t allow your nerves to get the better of you! Try one of these tactics to help you feel calm, cool, and collected—or at least appear to be.
- Dress appropriately
- Stay Alert
- Practice Breathing Techniques
- Prepare and rehearse your answers for the common interview questions.
- Make eye contact
- Keep a check on your body movements – do not fidget, twirl your hair, tap your legs etc.
- Be calm, and composed, and smile in between to leave a good impression.
- Don’t be afraid of silence. Take your time to think and answer the questions.
- Ask relevant questions
- Lastly, be positive
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In Public
Public speaking can be intimidating for everyone, but introverts generally struggle the most. There are, however, techniques for introverts to gain confidence and begin public speaking.
Try one of these tricks to help you feel more calm and confident while speaking in public:
- Practice your speech beforehand
- Ask for honest feedback from your friends and family
- It’s okay to fumble, just keep going
- Smile at the audience to leave a lasting impression
- Speak from your heart, rather than from notes or scripts
- Give yourself time. If you have to give 2-3 speeches one after the other, take a break and catch your breath.
- Motivate yourself
- Be both a critic and cheerleader for yourself.
- Imagine giving a successful speech and the audience clapping and hooting for you, how would you feel? Step on the stage with the same scenario in your mind.
- Speak slowly and clearly.
- Connect with the audience from the beginning.
About Yourself
Even after doing a lot, there are days when you feel unworthy and not-so-confident about yourself. It’s okay, we all have our share of bad days!
On such days, you have to be your own ray of sunshine and hype your own self. Read the tips given below to feel more confident about yourself:
- Be proud of your small achievements/milestones.
- Do not judge others.
- Learn to say no – this might be difficult, but it’s better to not do something rather than do it half-heartedly.
- Speak up! Your opinions matter so you should speak up wherever it’s necessary even if you feel otherwise.
- Be a good listener – contrary to the point above, sometimes it’s better to just listen and understand things than to speak. Know the difference!
- Accept that it’s okay to be wrong
- Workout- Do mental exercises to control your emotions and thoughts.
- Believe that the sky is the limit
- Take credit for your achievements
- Improve your self-talk. Be more caring towards yourself.
- Practice gratitude
- Create healthy routines
- Live in the present. Let go of the past no matter how hard it is.
- Take it one step/one day at a time.
At Work
Confidence at work can be critical to your overall success.
Aside from enhancing your professional growth and skills, the following tactics will help you enhance your workplace confidence:
- Attend professional development training
- Develop new skills
- Dress like a professional
- Step out of your comfort zone
- Follow in the footsteps of your confident colleagues
- Set daily/weekly goals for yourself
- Focus on your strengths and capitalize on them
- Learn from your mistakes
- Ask as many questions as possible
- Identify your weaknesses and work on them
- Know that it is okay to feel shaken sometimes
- Seek encouragement from your peers
- Challenge yourself
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Conclusion
Being more confident begins and ends with you because you have the ability to make judgements and choices. Reminding yourself that you can choose to be confident will help you become more confident. Confidence levels can rise along with success, pleasure, and contentment once you start believing what you tell yourself. We hope this blog helped you in gaining some insight into how to be more confident in different situations. If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to comment below.
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Ans: Here are some additional basic approaches that may assist you in feeling better about yourself:
-Recognise your strengths. We’re all talented in some way, whether it’s cooking, singing, solving problems, or being a friend.
-Create positive relationships.
-Be kind to yourself.
-Develop your assertiveness.
-Begin saying “no”
-Set a goal for yourself.
Ans: Set attainable goals for yourself. Use positive self-talk. Make time for your hobbies and experiment with various activities to discover what you are enthusiastic about. Speak with a therapist or mental health expert to learn self-management techniques that can boost confidence and self-esteem.
Ans: Signs of a lack of confidence are:
-Feelings of self-doubt are
-Signs of low confidence.
-Submissive or docile behaviour.
-Trusting others is challenging.
-Feeling inferior to others.
-Very sensitive to criticism.
-Feeling unloved.
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